Thu, May. 1st, 2008, 01:34 pm
Somewhat disjointed update

It's May already - how did that happen?

I've been astonishingly slack at updating. Sorry folks! A good many of you I chat with online or see in person, but if you've been wondering why I dropped off the face of the internet ... well, I didn't. I just went kinda quiet.


Life's trundling along pretty well.
~ April was a hard slog, as we had our NZQA audit at work - and passing said audits is pretty much my responsibility. It was mightily stressful and there was a lot of work prepping for it (and no recognition or thank you afterwards. New management sucks). Still, we did quite well, and I'm satisfied with the result.

~ I'm continuing to look for work that I can do from home. Help? Up to 30 hrs a week, and I don't mind going in for an occasional meeting.

~ Al's still deteriorating, slowly. He spent a week in the hospice for respite, which he and we all appreciate.

~ My migraine is relatively stable, but not improving as I hoped it would after getting rid of my mercury fillings. Still, I'm able to do 5 hr days at work with reasonable regularity.

~ Ben and I are having a good time downloading and watching the latest eps of Battlestar Galactica, Lost, and Dr Who. It's nice keeping up as they play overseas, so I can participate in various discussions online.



This May will be nine years since mum killed herself. That's nearly a third of my life. The first half of the month I am cautious about, as I don't know how I will be reacting. The second half I am looking forward to - the 20th is our civil union anniversary, and Ben and I are talking about heading out of town for a night the weekend beforehand.

This May will also be three years since the Migraine of Doomâ„¢ began. I wonder if it will ever, ever go away?


And now: cats!
Simon's Cat: Cat Man Do
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0ffwDYo00Q

An Engineer's Guide to Cats
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHXBL6bzAR4

Cat playing the theremin
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUmJ2Wg_hR4

Thu, May. 1st, 2008 11:09 pm (UTC)
[info]albinokrow

does this migraine just never go away??

ROFL I love the corporal cuddling!!!!!





and sorry about your mom.. thats very tragic..
if you don't mind me being nosey I'm curious as to why..
but I understand if you don't want to answer

Fri, May. 2nd, 2008 02:07 am (UTC)
[info]debxena

No, the migraine never goes away :( I started getting migraines in 2000, but this particular one began in May 2005 and never stopped.

You're welcome to ask me about my mum, as I don't mind at all. The short answer is we don't know why. The long answer is that as far as we can tell she was depressed, stressed about her business and her new marriage, and her perfectionism and need to be seen as competent meant she hid it and took the only way out that she could see. Which was to successfully kill herself. It wasn't a cry for help - it was a very determined action.

Fri, May. 2nd, 2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
[info]slutbamwalla

This May will also be three years since the Migraine of Doomâ„¢ began. I wonder if it will ever, ever go away?

I can sympathize. As I tell all my doctors, I don't "get migraines" -- I got a migraine fifteen years ago and while it grows and recedes, it never fully goes away. Like you, I'm in some level of pain every single day.

Sun, May. 4th, 2008 10:14 pm (UTC)
[info]debxena

It is very unpleasant, isn't it? *hugs*